INFIDELITY
Sunday, October 07, 2007 4:24 PM
INFIDELITY
I've always had strong views about people being infidel. I've seen cases of how families break up and lives fall apart because of sexual indiscretion. Sexual indiscretion, nice name for a shameless activity. But do you know what can be worse? Double whammy! Cheat on your partner and sleep with someone else's partner! No shame no shame. They have no heart for how their partner (i dont mean sexual partner, but their supposed-to-be- other half) feels and obviously had spared no thought for the fact that their sleeping with someone else's bf/gf. No shame, no shame.
Before i continue, i strongly suggest, that if you belong to this particular category of persons, please click the big red X on the top right corner of the window. I dont think you would enjoy the rest of this post. But then again, with such limited conscience, you might not feel much.
Everyone makes mistakes. I dont deny that. But it makes a huge difference if you've obviously made a mistake and yet u're unrepentant. Sorry, i shouldnt say unrepentant. Maybe thats asking for too much. It makes a huge difference when you've obviously made a mistake and yet you dont think you have done wrong. Rationalize all you want. Think that the whole world doesnt understand you. Fine. Think that your reasons rule the world. How could u possibly sleep well at night? How could you possibly wake up every morning without a nagging feeling of shamelessness? No shame no shame.
I've seen cases of husbands giving their wives STDs. How could u forgive yourself for that? How could you??? And dont smile. Dont think, "well, i didnt." its more like "i havent".
I've seen cases of wives that have gone through the tough times with their husbands and what they get in the end, is their husband finding them naggy and enjoying their time with other women.
But of coz, there are also cases of women who have cheated on their husbands, spotting reasons like, neglect. Hello lady, would you like a husband who doesnt care two hoots about his work and spends his days sleeping at home and lazing ard? That is no reason. You are lonely? Big deal. Find something to do with ur life please.
As always, it doesnt mean if you've done wrong, there is no way to redeem yourself but 不要一错再错..... 千万要带眼识人！
My dear young girls, as you are reading this, i honestly wish that you will remember that life is not about just making yourself happy. The world doesnt revolve around you and only you. Before doing anything, consider whether the repercussions would hurt the people around you. Put urselves in the shoes of others. Take pride in what you do and who you are.
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